Still Figuring It Out—But Showing Up Anyway

You’re supposed to know who you are by now, right? I’m 60, and some days I’m still asking, “Who even is she?” But I’ve learned that showing up as you are—gray braids, racy red Camaro, playlist full of 80s rock and a love for fantasy football—is more than enough. This page is for the women trying to figure it out while living out loud.

Origin Story

From Omaha to DC: The Long Way to Myself

I grew up in Omaha, Nebraska, during a time when the expected path was simple: date your high school sweetheart, get married, settle down. I wanted no part of it. Then, people started saying, “Look at her eyes… she’s pretty.” And just like that, my looks became my identity. No one praised my intellect or grit—just my face.

I carried that story with me to Howard University. “HU… You Know!” I had no idea what I was doing or studying, and honestly? I still don’t. But I kept moving. I’ve spent decades trying to fit into roles: daughter, mother, caretaker, professional. But now? I’m making space for myself.

The Business That Started It All

I Didn’t Plan to Be a Speaker—My Clients Told Me To

I started a mobile notary and loan signing business because I wanted independence. That business trained me to build trust quickly, show up confidently, and serve people during big life moments. Over time, my clients and friends kept saying, “You need to speak.” So I listened.

Why This Platform Exists

This Isn’t Just About Me—It’s About Us

I created Signing New Chapters for women who are done pretending. Women of color who feel pressure to age gracefully, look perfect, be quiet, and never question the path. I’m here to say: you can wear long braids, get cosmetic surgery, start over at 55, and live life your way. It’s never too late to break the mold.

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